I Love You, Man movie poster
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GenreComedy & Romance
RatedR
Runtime1 hr 45 mins
ReleasedMarch 20, 2009
StreamingSee Where to Watch
DirectorJohn Hamburg
StarringPaul Rudd, Jason Segel, Rashida Jones

I Love You, Man (2009)

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I Love You, Man's Details
GenreComedy & Romance
RatedR
Released03/20/2009
StreamingSee Where to Watch on this page.
Running Time1 hr 45 mins
Budget$40M (reported)
Box OfficeUpdated daily from Box Office Mojo. See the numbers below.
CountryUnited States
LanguageEnglish
I Love You, Man's Interests
GeneralRush, man caves, slap bass, open houses, awkward nicknames, Venice Beach.
MusicTheodore Shapiro, plus a real Rush concert. Bring your air drums.
MoviesRole Models (2008). Paul Rudd, another crash course in being a good friend.
TelevisionHow I Met Your Mother. Jason Segel, still the guy you want as your best man.
HeroesRush. Geddy, Alex and Neil, the three wise men of the man cave.
I Love You, Man's Crew
DirectorJohn Hamburg
WritersJohn Hamburg, Larry Levin, Larry Levin (story)
ProducersDonald De Line, John Hamburg
CinematographyLawrence Sher
MusicTheodore Shapiro
Edited ByWilliam Kerr
ProductionDreamWorks Pictures, De Line Pictures, Bernard Gayle Productions, The Montecito Picture Company
Distributed ByParamount Pictures
I Love You, Man's Trailer
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How I Love You, Man Performed
movie guru's TLDR

Every rom-com beat is here, the meet-cute, the montage, the big fight, except the couple is two grown men who just want to play Rush songs together. The formula is creaky, and Rashida Jones gets stuck as the endlessly patient fiancée. The fun is Paul Rudd. His Peter is so uncomfortable around other guys that every sentence comes out wrong, and he tries goofy slang and nicknames that make the other person visibly wince. Jason Segel plays Sydney as a loose, honest guy who seems to run his whole life from a garage hangout, and their chemistry is easy and sweet. Watching them jam on Rush in that garage is the best scene in the movie. Andy Samberg and J. K. Simmons are reliably funny as Peter’s family. It made $92 million worldwide on a reported $40M. A 7.0 because it’s warm and funny about a grown man’s loneliness. $255.14 says you play air bass on your steering wheel at a red light this week and lock eyes with the driver next to you.

What works: Paul Rudd’s awkward charm and Jason Segel’s easy warmth make a great pair, and the friendship feels sweet and real.

What doesn’t: The plot follows the rom-com formula beat for beat, and Rashida Jones is wasted as a patient fiancée who mostly waits on the sidelines.

Who it’s for: Anyone who has tried to make a new friend as a grown-up and realized nobody hands out instructions.

Spoilers

Peter ends the friendship after Sydney plasters his face on billboards, then learns the ads have brought in a flood of new clients. Sydney shows up just before the vows, pays back the money he borrowed and becomes the best man after all, and the two of them play Rush at the reception.

Guru’s Take
7.0/10
Above Average
I Love You, Man's Blurbs
About me:

Peter Klaven (Paul Rudd) is a sweet, slightly stiff Los Angeles real estate agent who just got engaged to Zooey Rice (Rashida Jones). Small problem: he has no guy friends, which means no best man. With tips from his brother Robbie (Andy Samberg), he starts going on a string of awkward friend dates. Then, while showing Lou Ferrigno's house to buyers, he meets Sydney Fife (Jason Segel), a laid-back guy who says exactly what he thinks, and they bond over a shared love of the band Rush. John Hamburg directs. One hundred five minutes, bass fully slapped.

Who I'd like to meet:

Anyone who knows every word to a Rush song. Let's jam in the man cave.

I Love You, Man's Cast (in credits order)
Paul RuddPeter Klaven
Jason SegelSydney Fife
Rashida JonesZooey Rice
Andy SambergRobbie Klaven
J. K. SimmonsOswald Klaven
Jane CurtinJoyce Klaven
Jaime PresslyDenise McLean
Jon FavreauBarry McLean
Sarah BurnsHailey
Lou Ferrignohimself
Rob HuebelTevin Downey
Thomas LennonDoug Evans
Aziz AnsariEugene
Nick KrollLarry
Mather ZickelGil
Murray GershenzMel Stein
Joe Lo TruglioLonnie
Josh CookeAlan
Jean VillepiqueLeanne
Jerry Minor, Jay Chandrasekhar, Seth Morris,Barry's Buddies
James EngelBarry's Buddies
Nelson FranklinSydney's Buddies
Ethan SmithSydney's Buddies
Carla Gallo, Liz Cackowski, Kulap Vilaysack, Catherine Reitman,Zooey's friends
Full cast and crew on IMDb.
I Love You, Man's Edit History
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  • (cur | prev) 14:30, 17 October 2026 DataBot +480 Numbers refreshed: Worldwide box office $92M; Domestic box office $71.4M; Opening weekend $17.8M; Profit / loss (est.) -$14M; Rotten Tomatoes 82%; CinemaScore B+; box office chart updated; Rotten Tomatoes critics 82% (204 reviews); Metacritic 70 / 100; CinemaScore B+; IMDb users 7.0 / 10 (227,382 votes); movie.guru score 6.6.
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